Let’s be honest....making friends as an adult can feel a bit awkward. Somewhere between school, work, and family life, we have lost the easy way friendships used to form.
When you move somewhere new (or even when you’ve lived here for years), it’s hard to know where to start. Who do you talk to? How do you actually meet people who get you?
That’s exactly why Somewhere South aka SoSo was born. Because sometimes, you don’t need networking or small talk, you just need a way in.
💬 Start small (but start)
You don’t have to walk into a room full of strangers straight away. Try things that feel natural.....a morning walk, a local class, or a creative workshop. The trick is letting go of all of those feelings and just showing up.
If you go somewhere consistently; a coffee shop, yoga class, or even school gates....faces become familiar. That’s when the magic starts to happen. But it is tricky, awkward and sometimes just feels like you're being ignored. You're not alone. We have felt this too.
💕 Join something new
The Cotswolds has plenty of groups, but finding one that feels like you is another story. That’s where women’s social clubs like SoSo come in!
We run relaxed, friendly events like candle making, walks, brunches, sports intros which are designed to help women meet new people without the pressure. No awkward intros, no forced fun, just connection.
🌸 Be the one who says hello
It’s easy to assume everyone already has their group, but you’d be surprised how many people feel exactly like you. A simple “mind if I join you?” can open the door to something lovely. And the magic is that everyone at a SoSo event is there for the same reason.
✨ Remember: everyone’s looking for connection
Whether you’re in Cheltenham, Cirencester, or Bristol there are women nearby wanting the same thing: laughter, friendship, and belonging.
If that sounds like you, join one of our events & follow us on Instagram @somewheresouthuk
We’re a women’s social club for the South West here to help you find your people again. ❤️🩷